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Showing posts with label Some Reflections. Show all posts
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Tuesday, January 01, 2008

a special rose parade connection - life takes flight



Life Takes Flight is a float in this 2008 Rose Parade. The float is sponsored by Donate Life to honor organ and tissue donors. A rose dedicated to honor my Uncle Don was included in the Family Circle Garden of roses on the float. I posted more info on the ceremony here.

I started my year off by making sure my organ and tissue donor signature card is in my wallet with my donor sticker on my driver's license.

For more photos of the Life Takes Flight Rose Parade float click here: http://www.donatelifefloat.org/prod/components/media_center/journal/journal_010108b.html

Friday, December 14, 2007

Life Takes Flight



On Wednesday my parents and I attended a Rose Dedication Ceremony to honor my Uncle Don for his organ donation this past spring. On New Years Day a rose in his honor will be included in Donate Life’s Family Circle Rose Float called “Life Takes Flight.”

Last March my uncle’s weak heart gave out from congestive heart failure. I came home a couple weeks early from South Africa to be with my family. It was my uncle’s desire to be an organ donor. It was an amazing and intense experience going through the organ donation process with the hospital and the doctors. My dad and I were in the operating room with my uncle when they removed life support. I was then with him two days later when he passed away and entered the presence of Jesus. I made it to the hospital less then ten minutes before he took his last breath.

It was emotional and meaningful to return to UC Irvine Medical Center this week. It was special to see some of the doctors and organ donation personnel who walked through those difficult few days with our family. Some we didn’t even remember in the fog and grief of those days.

While we miss my uncle deeply, we are grateful to know his organs gave life to others!

Here is a website that shares more about the Rose Parade float:
http://www.donatelifefloat.org/prod/components/media_center/media_kit/pr_111907.html

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

two years of blogging....

Two years ago I entered this new world of blogging. Two years, ten countries, and 203 blog posts later…..the road continues ever on and on! In many ways, my blog parallels and represents this two year journey of sabbatical, discernment, and preparation. Thanks for sharing in the journey and all that comes with it!

The Lord of the Rings begins with Bilbo Baggins leaving home for an unknown destination. Two years ago, I began blog post #1 sharing how I felt like Bilbo not knowing what was ahead, but eager for the road ahead.

The road goes ever on and on, down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the road has gone, and I must follow it if I can,
Pursuing it with eager feet, until it joins the larger way
Where many paths and errands meet.
And whither then? I cannot say?
~ Bilbo Baggins in the Fellowship of the Ring

It didn’t take long for God to bring to my attention Isaiah 52:12, “But you will not leave in haste or go in flight; for the Lord will go before you, and the God of Israel will be your rear guard.” Here God promised to go before the Israelites and be their rear guard as they followed Him. How true these promises of God's faithfulness held true in my journey on the road! These promises also bring comfort to me as I prepare to leave for Argentina very soon.

I can testify that God truly has gone before me and "marked the road for the coming day."

And the road continues ever on and on….

Saturday, November 24, 2007

step back and take a long view

The below prayer was recited at my Word Made Flesh commissioning service earlier this month. The words of the prayer have been attributed to Archbishop Oscar Romero, who served the people of El Salvador and was assassinated in 1980 while he was saying mass in San Salvador. Regardless of who wrote the prayer, I think the words are a beautiful reminder of our role in the Kingdom of God!

The Prayer of Oscar Romero*
It helps, now and then, to step back and take a long view.

The kingdom is not only beyond our efforts,
it is even beyond our vision.

We accomplish in our lifetime only a tiny fraction
of the magnificent enterprise that is God's work.
Nothing we do is complete, which is a way of saying
that the kingdom always lies beyond us.
No statement says all that could be said.
No prayer fully expresses our faith.
No confession brings perfection.
No pastoral visit brings wholeness.
No program accomplishes the church's mission.
No set of goals and objectives includes everything.

This is what we are about.
We plant the seeds that one day will grow.
We water seeds already planted, knowing
that they hold future promise.

We lay foundations that will need further development.
We provide yeast that produces far beyond our capabilities.

We cannot do everything, and there is a sense of liberation
in realizing that.
This enables us to do something, and to do it very well.
It may be incomplete, but it is a beginning, a step along the way,
an opportunity for the Lord's grace to enter and do the rest.
We may never see the end results, but that is the difference
between the master builder and the worker.

We are workers, not master builders; ministers, not messiahs.
We are prophets of a future not our own. Amen.

* The mystery is that the words of the prayer are attributed to Oscar Romero, but they were never spoken by him. They were, in fact, spoken by John Cardinal Dearden in November of 1979. They come from a homily he gave at a Mass for deceased priests. But what is even more important to know is that they were words drafted for Cardinal Dearden by Ken Untener. (National Catholic Reporter, March 28, 2004)

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

gestures of gratitude this thanksgiving

Thanksgiving week is a time to recognize and express our love and gratitude to God and those we love! This time of year I usually pull out the book Space for God by Don Postema. There are a couple chapters on gratitude that are appropriate for the Thanksgiving season, as well as the entire year! I have shared these quotes before, but I think they are worth repeating...

“God is the giver. We are the thanks-givers…As gestures of gratitude unite us on a human level, they also unite us with the divine Giver. God offers gracious gifts, covenantal blessings, summarized in ‘You Belong.’ In response we say, ‘Thanks! I am grateful!’ We embrace God’s acceptance of us and in turn are embraced…Our social gestures of thanks, like a handshake or a letter, correspond to our religious gestures, like sacrifice, worship, obedience. Religious gestures are our way of saying to God, ‘Thank you for all the good things that come from you, the Source of all life.’”

“Gratitude as recognition, receptivity, and response is a basic attitude and action of the Christian life. We not only recognize and are aware of God’s gifts to us, but we also continually find ways of saying thanks to God in worship, prayer, and ‘whatever we say or do.’ Our aim is to live our whole life as a sacred gesture of thanksgiving, a deep bow of gratitude, solidifying our relationship with God.”

Some great Scriptures on gratitude and thanksgiving include: Psalm 75:1; Psalm 95:1-7; Psalm 100; Psalm 136; Colossians 2:6-7; Colossians 3:12, 16-17; Colossians 4:2; 1 Thessalonians 5:17-18; Philippians 4:6-7.

Thursday, October 04, 2007

growing into vocation

As begin to recall and reflect back on these past couple of years, I am beginning to see how God continues to reshape my understanding of vocation and call. My tendency in the beginning of this season of discernment was to seek God with doing questions of who, what, where, and how (Where will I serve? With who? What will be my focus?). Gradually, with the direction of reading, mentoring, and some experience with the Ignation spiritual practices (Examen, consolation, and desolation) those discernment questions began to grow into being questions like,
What is God calling me to in relationship with him?...
And what experiences are drawing me closer to God and life in the Spirit?...
As well as, what experiences are drawing me away from God and life in the Spirit?

David Brenner captures “vocation” well in his book, The Gift of Being Yourself, “Too often we think of God’s call (or our vocation) solely in terms of what we do….However, while doing will always be involved, vocation is much more than our occupation. It is the face of Christ we are called from eternity to show the world. It is who we are called to be.”

Parker Palmer also has impacted my understanding of vocation Let Your Life Speak, “Vocation does not come from willfulness. It comes from listening. I must listen to my life and try to understand what it is truly about – quite apart from what I would like it to be about – or my life will never represent anything real in the world, no matter how earnest my intentions. That insight is hidden in the word vocation itself, which is rooted in the Latin ‘voice.’ Vocation does not mean a goal that I pursue. It means a calling that I hear. Before I can tell my life what I want to do with it, I must listen to my life telling me who I am.”

My primary vocation is follower of Jesus Christ conforming into his image. Simple at its core, but a lifelong process of listening and formation! I now look forward to following Jesus to Argentina and continuing the process of formation among the community there.

Thursday, September 27, 2007

seasons

I know it is a big stretch to say that I experience seasons in Southern California. Here fall means Santa Ana winds and brush fires, while winter means a couple of rain storms if we’re lucky, usually accompanied with mudslides. Spring and summer bring warm and hot temps with some June gloom in between. However, even with my lack of experiencing real seasons, I do feel that my seasonal cycle is a bit out of whack these past two years. Jumping back and forth from Northern to Southern hemispheres (Brasil, Argentina, South Africa) will do that to you, I guess.

All this got me reflecting about seasons and life. Parker Palmer writes a great chapter on the metaphor of seasons in his book, Let Your Life Speak. Palmer prefers the metaphor of seasons of growth, decline, and new life and of comfort and challenge in the cycle of seasons. He shares, “Seasons is a wise metaphor for the movement of life, I think. It suggests that life is neither a battlefield nor a game of chance but something infinitely richer, more promising, more real. The notion that our lives are like the eternal cycle of the seasons does not deny the struggle or joy, the loss of the gain, the darkness or the light, but encourages us to embrace it all -- and to find in all of it opportunities of growth.”

On Autumn, Palmer reflects…. “Autumn is a season of great beauty, but it is also a season of decline: the days grow shorter, the light is suffused, and summer’s abundance decays toward winters’s death. Faced with this inevitable winter, what does nature do in autumn? It scatters the seeds that will bring new growth in the spring – and scatters them with amazing abandon….as I explore autumn’s paradox of dying and seeding, I feel the power of metaphor. In the autumnal events of my own experience, I am easily fixated on surface appearances – on decline of meaning, the decay of relationships, the death of work. And yet if I look more deeply, I may see the myriad possibilities being planted to bear fruit in some season to come.”

Now, since it is spring in Argentina (see Adriana Forcatto’s latest blog post: www.adrianainargentina.blogspot.com)....I’ll share some of Palmer’s reflections on spring for my Southern Hemisphere friends in Argentina, Brasil, and South Africa!

“Though spring begins slowly and tentatively, it grows with a tenacity that never fails to touch me. The smallest and most tender shoots insist on having their way, coming up through ground that looked, only a few weeks earlier, as if it would never grow anything again. The crocuses and snowdrops do not bloom for long. But their mere appearance, however brief, is always a harbinger of hope, and from those small beginnings, hope grows at a geometric rate. The days get longer, the winds get warmer, and the world grows green again. In my own life, as my winters segue into spring, I not only find it hard to cope with mud but hard to credit the small harbingers of larger life to come, hard to hope until the outcome is secure. Spring teaches me to look more carefully for the green stems of possibility: for the intuitive hunch that may turn into a larger insight, for the glance or touch that may thaw a frozen relationship, for the stranger’s act of kindness that makes the world seem hospitable again.

“From autumn’s profligate seedings to the great spring giveaway, nature teaches a steady lesson: if we want to save our lives, we cannot cling to them but must spend them with abandon.”